
These patients believe they lack the chops to be a good lover. “Won’t it be obvious when I’m in bed with someone who has experience and knows what they’re doing and what to expect?” many worry. Many self-labeled late bloomers feel they’re “sexually doomed” and will never be able to catch up.
In my experience, those negative self-beliefs often become self-fulfilling prophecies unless they’re challenged head-on.
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When it comes to being a good sexual partner, to what extent does experience really matter? Can a late bloomer make up for lost time and even excel as a sexual partner? Should we even be using the term? To get some answers, I turned to my colleagues across the country.
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