
Shane Hollander (Hudson Williams) and Ilya Rozanov (Connor Storrie) in ‘Heated Rivalry’
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But these challenges aren’t limited to gay men. “My male clients struggle far more when they are the partner with less sexual experience,” said sex therapist Eva Dillon, a psychotherapist in New York City. “The cultural expectation that heterosexual men should be sexually skilled and have had many partners is alive and well.”