Feeling like a late bloomer when it comes to sex? There’s hope

What if you’re the partner of a late bloomer?

If you’re dating someone who’s a sexual late bloomer, try to resist the urge to see yourself as their teacher, Needle said. “Every relationship involves learning about each other, regardless of how much experience either person has. Instead of focusing on what they haven’t done, focus on creating an environment where they feel safe enough to ask questions, express preferences, and be honest if something feels awkward or unfamiliar. And you should feel comfortable doing the same.”

Consider yourself special. Someone else has intentionally chosen to share their first sexual experiences with you. “Having sex with a late bloomer can be a rare honor — a gift wrapped in agency and vulnerability,” de Oliveira said.

Remember, it’s normal for our sexual preferences and desires to change over time and with different partners. We’re constantly evolving.